Steady Stoic
Daily lesson · Week 79 · Tuesday · Afternoon

Time, Our Only Possession

This week's concept is one the Stoics named but rarely labelled with a single tidy term: the idea that time (tempus, in Latin) is the only thing that truly belongs to you. Everything else, your money, your reputation, your health, can be taken by circumstance or other people. Time is taken too, constantly, which is exactly why the Stoics insisted you treat it as your most precious possession and spend it with the same care you would give to something irreplaceable. Over seven days, you'll move from understanding what this means, through seeing how time actually drains away, to learning how to genuinely possess the hours you still have.

Passage

Therefore let us press on and persevere. There remains much more of the road than we have put behind us; but the greater part of progress is the desire to progress. I fully understand what this task is. It is a thing which I desire, and I desire it with all my heart. I see that you also have been aroused and are hastening with great zeal towards infinite beauty. Let us, then, hasten; only on these terms will life be a boon to us; otherwise, there is delay, and indeed disgraceful delay, while we busy ourselves with revolting things. Let us see to it that all time belongs to us. This, however, cannot be unless first of all our own selves begin to belong to us.

— Seneca, Letters 71.36

Reflection

Seneca now gives you the practical hinge of the whole week: 'all time belongs to us' only when 'our own selves begin to belong to us.' This is the concept of self-possession, prohairesis in Greek, which means the free exercise of your own choosing faculty, your will, your capacity to direct attention and intention. If you are pulled around by habit, appetite, or other people's agendas, your time follows wherever you are dragged. To own your time, you first have to be the one actually steering your own choices. Seneca isn't being abstract here; he means the ordinary daily moments when you could stop and choose, but don't.

Go deeper

Where in your typical day does something or someone else effectively decide how your next hour goes, and what would it cost you to reclaim even one of those hours this week?

Practice

One Reclaimed Hour

About 8 minutes

Identify one block of time today, even thirty minutes, that you would normally let slide into distraction, obligation, or passivity. Before it arrives, write down exactly what you will do with it instead. Then do that thing. Afterward, note in one or two sentences how it felt to choose in advance.